Saturday, July 6, 2013

Cary Grant and Randolph Scott: A Gay Hollywood Romance.

Cary Grant was born in 1904 in Bristol, England with the unfortunate name of Archibald Leach.   When Archie was only 9, his father put Archie’s mother in a mental hospital, remarried and then abandoned Archie to the care of the state. 

 By the age of 14 he was expelled from school and joined a traveling vaudeville show as a stilt-walker. At the age of 16, he left England for a two year tour of the American vaudeville circuit with his British troupe. Soon he was working with an American troupe in St. Louis where he mastered acrobatics, mime and juggling. After a stint on Broadway, Archie moved to west to California and soon signed a contract with Paramount Studios under his new name of Cary Grant. 

 In spite of his poor background and his vaudeville past, he would constantly be cast as a wealthy sophisticate.

 George Randolph Scott’s early years were almost the exact opposite of Cary Grant’s. George was born in 1898 to a well off family. As a child growing up in Virginia, he lived a life of privilege. George’s parents made sure that he attended the best private schools and that he had a happy and care free childhood.

 After serving in World War I, going to college and a brief stint in the family business; George eventually decided on a career in acting. George’s father knew Howard Hughes, who was making films at that time, and arranged an introduction for his son. Soon known as Randolph Scott, he was only getting bit parts and was little more than window dressing. On the advice of director Cecil B. Demille, Scott gained some much needed acting experience by performing in local productions at the Pasadena Playhouse. The work paid off and soon he was landing larger roles.

Cary and Randolph met on the set of the 1932 movie, “Hot Saturday.”  The attraction was mutual and they quickly began spending all of their free time together. Their friends from that period said that the two handsome young actors lived together openly and began traveling in Hollywood’s gay social circles. A few years before, Cary Grant had lived openly with gay Hollywood designer, Orry-Kelly. 

 Cary and Randolph shared a Santa Monica beach house as well as mansion in Los Feliz at 2177 West Live Oak Drive. 

They would live together for a total of 11 years, longer than most Hollywood marriages.


  A closeted gay journalist named Ben Maddox wrote a profile of the two bachelors for Modern Screen in 1933. The photos show Cary Grant and Randolph Randolph sharing house and living a very cozy and domestic life at the beach. Maddox used various code words in his story that would identify them as a couple to gay readers. These photos of them wearing aprons were apparently too much for heterosexual columnists who ridiculed the two men and implied that there was “something” between them.


 In 1934, the studio “encouraged” Grant to marry in order to kill the gay rumors that were swirling around the two young actors. In February of 1934, he married Virginia Cherril and 13 months later she divorced him, claiming that he had hit her. 

Virginia also said the Grant was constantly drunk and sullen and never showed any sexual interest. There is an unconfirmed rumor that Cary had been so depressed by his situation that he even attempted suicide. An attempted suicide was something that the studios would have done everything in their power to hush up; so that may be why there is no real evidence of it happening. 

Cary moved back in with Randolph as soon as the divorce was settled. The studio publicity department regularly planted stories about an endless stream of attractive young women going in and out of the beach house which they now referred to as “Bachelor Hall.”




Their good friend, Carole Lombard, when joking about Grant notorious cheapness said  "Their relationship is perfect. Randy pays the bills and Cary mails them.” Between the two of them, they had 7 failed marriages, but they were most likely marriages of convenience. 

 Mr Blackwell, the notorious fashion critic, lived with Cary and Randolph for several months. In his memoir he said that he considered them, “deeply, madly in love, their devotion complete…Behind closed doors they were warm, kind, loving and caring, and unembarrassed about showing it.”


 By 1940 they were no longer living together, due to pressure from the studio heads to marry and protect their image. They only made one movie together, ironically it was called, “My Favorite Wife.”

They must have still be lovers at the time since the script supervisor, Bert Granet, for “My Favorite Wife” recalled Cary and Randolfs unusual behavior on set:
“We shot the pool sequence at the Huntington Hotel in Pasadena. Cary and Randy Scott arrived as a pair and, to the total astonishment of myself, the director, and the ultra-macho crew, instead of taking separate suites moved into the same room together. Everyone looked at everyone else. It seemed hardly believable.”

 Cary and Randolph remained extremely close their entire lives. The maître d' at the Beverly Hillcrest Hotel saw both actors in the 1970s, sitting in the back of the restaurant, long after the place had emptied. Cary Grant and Randolph Scott were sitting alone, quietly holding hands.

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  1. Although I am straight, my very best friend (Doug Stenson) came out of the closet in '73. We had graduated high school together in '65. After Doug told me the truth I decided that our friendship was more important and for the last 15 years of his life we were closer friends than ever before. Doug died in the Spring of '88 of AIDS. I miss him almost everyday.

    1. i am also straight and you handled the situation with your best friend with grace and maturity, you have my respect robert

  2. I makes me very sad to see what must have been a strong love, quieted and hushed up by the ignorance of the time. Even now, we are barely allowed to have relationships. And when we do, we can only get married in a few places. Time will be on our side.

  3. This explains why I love Cary Grant so much!! I can't get enough of him, watch many of his movies over and over. Thank you for this wonderful history of Cary and Randolph's love affair.

  4. I had NO IDEA that Cary Grant was gay. But I did enjoy and appreciate your information. Nicely done.

    1. I'm 43 and a huge fan of Grant. If you read "Full Service" by Scotty Bowers you will get an insight as to how many people you had no idea were gay. You will be quite surprised. Tyrone Power, James Dean, Montgomery Clift, to name a (small) few. If you do your research it's all there.

  5. Heartbreaking! It makes me mad that the daughter is promoting his most clever covert assertion that he like to be thought of as gay so that women would try to prove him wrong. Is it really that shameful to admit the truth that your father was in love with another, talented and beautiful man?

    1. I am in total concurrence with you! He was a wonderful talent and being gay doesn't take away from that. He absolutely referenced gay code in many and or most of his films. Btw his "color" was robins egg blue!

  6. A pair of great actors and even better human beings.

  7. nunca había visto estas imágenes, pero se ven tan felices, son hermosas.

    1. Beautiful. I could not have said it better. Gracias!